30 Things I’m Glad I Know Before I Turn 30: Part 3
11. When to ask for help.
And that there is a fine, fine line between that and being a drama queen. I’ve gotten to where I can tell someone, straight up, “I can’t do this alone.” I’m not ashamed. I’m not embarrassed. And if people try to make me feel that way when I reach out to them, that’s their bad, not mine.
12. Who my friends are.
See #11. I keep good people around, but I’m always accepting applications.
13. That I have a say in every aspect of my life.
If I don’t like something, you can bet I’m going to stop doing it. If I want to make something happen, I can get where I need to be make it happen. In fact…
14. I can do anything I want to.
And so can you.
15. Who God is to me.
Just because I don’t prescribe to a specific dogma does not mean spirituality isn’t important to me. I know what I believe, it doesn’t hurt anyone else, and I’m happy I can comfortably say that I keep in touch with that part of my soul every day.